“Wow,
your hair looks amazing today!” “Honey, the dinner you cooked was fantastic!”
or “Jim, that was an excellent report you gave at the meeting!” The power of
praise can take your relationships to elevating new levels. Life is all about
relationships, and to have any type of successful relationship one should
utilize the art of praise.
There
is power in praising people. It’s no secret that one can get more with honey
than vinegar. Praise is all about focusing on the positive, and it is generally
a win-win proposition. It builds
connections, helps people feel appreciated, and let’s people know you are
paying attention.
Giving
praise does not just benefit the person you gave the compliment too, it benefits
you as well. The impact that you can
make on someone, simply from the way you interact with them is enormous. It
could be as simple as saying something genuine to make someone smile, which
causes them to be happy. Their happiness you brought upon could lead to them
liking you more, or being more receptive to helping you. The investment of
compliments usually reaps over a thousand fold. The more positive you put out,
the more positive comes your way. Anyone
who understands the theory pay it forward, can attest to that.
Giving
praise requires paying attention to detail and finding the good in situations. By
doing so you are changing your frame of thought to positivity. Positivity
determines if your glass is half full. My challenge to you is to find the
positive in spouse, co-workers, and children. If you feel you can’t find
something, then keep looking. Even if it is something small, make an effort to
give praise.
*Info in this blog is strictly my personal
and/or professional opinion. Posts and comments are not intended to treat,
diagnose or replace any medical advice you may have received. Please contact
your doctor or therapist if you feel you need help, and in case of an
emergency, dial 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.*
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